How will dementia affect me?

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Dementia affects people in different ways. Everyone will experience dementia in their own way and no two people will be affected in the same way. However, there are signs and symptoms which are helpful to mention and these are listed below. The important thing is that you will need time to come to terms with a diagnosis of dementia. Having information about dementia early on will give you the opportunity to make changes in your life and plan for the future. Informing those people you are closest to about your diagnosis will give you the opportunity to share any concerns you have and give your friends and family the opportunity to help you make the necessary adjustments and plans for your future.

The early symptoms of dementia you will probably already be familiar with. They include short term memory problems, such as remembering dates, what day it is, people’s names or forgetting appointments. Problems with language are also very common. This includes remembering the names of objects, forgetting what words you want to use or finding that you substitute words when you cannot remember the word you wanted to use. You may find that you cannot finish a sentence or lose track of a conversation.  All of this can be very frustrating and quite irritating at times for the person with dementia.To other people you might appear confused at times as you spend longer thinking about things or responding to questions; particularly when you cannot find the answer. Try not to worry or become embarrassed by this. Many people have found that simply telling other people that you have dementia makes it much easier for both you and them in understanding how dementia will affect you. Certainly your family and friends will notice these changes in you and they will be aware of any changes in your personality or behaviour. Sometimes it is helpful to ask your GP or memory service to talk to your family, so they have more information about how dementia will affect you.

As time goes on you will find remembering things increasingly difficult and thinking problems through will become more of an issue. This includes taking in new information, making decisions and even reading and writing. Later you will find everyday activities increasingly difficult. This includes tasks like shopping, attending appointments, paying bills, preparing food, cooking and managing money. Eventually you may need help with washing, dressing and ensuring you get enough to eat and drink.

Whilst this will all seem quite frightening for you now, the deterioration described above is usually over a period of years. Indeed some people stay the same for months without any obvious changes. Most people have had dementia for quite some time before they receive a diagnosis and whilst they have often been aware of problems, have managed to function quite well with the help of family and friends.

Because short term memory is usually affected in the early stages of dementia, some people find themselves feeling that they have better long term memory and enjoy reminiscing about the past. It may be that you re-discover and get enjoyment from old family photographs or other activities you have previously enjoyed like music or gardening.

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